I CAN'T.

These two cuties are so uniquely perfect for each other and absolutely brimming with enthusiasm for their life together. They mayyyyy have gotten married already. Ok, they totally did! They eloped on a boat (it was a whole romantic thing) but on this day they were ready to do the whole damn thing again. And on this day... they had all their amazing friends and family cheering them on.

Their wedding was sprinkled with touches of Mardi Gras, the ocean, The Mariners and golden yellow sunflower goodness. The historic and beautiful Santa Barbara Woman's Club was an absolutely lovely backdrop to this joyous day.

The cheeriest and brightest florals by Something's Blooming LA

A family friend of Emily's designed and made custom shoes for Emily and all her bridesmaids.

Alex's mother wrote a letter and gifted her daughter-in-law a beautiful family heirloom.

Hair and makeup by Liv Studios Inc

Emily's look was completed with the veil Alex made for her.

I love this photo so much, it so perfectly captures their playful spirits.

Emily wanted to re-create this childhood photo and I think we nailed it!

Ceremony time! Emily was all smiles and the flood of emotion that came over Alex's face when he saw her was spectacular.

The ceremony was officiated by each of their uncles, which brought such a personal and familial touch to this important commitment to one another.

Alex and Emily's handwritten vows showed just how deeply they know and appreciate each other.

Married and chilaxin' .

While the final touches were put on the reception hall, the guests enjoyed a gorgeous cocktail hour under the tree on the patio.

Emily is so happy she literally started levitating when she entered the room.

Emily's friend gifted the couple a beautiful performance on her Cyr wheel.

The featured ciders were provided by the brewery that Alex works at!

Did Alex dislocate his shoulder during this moment? Yes.

Did he get it popped back in place and then rejoin the dance floor? Also, yes.

Absolutely the most metal thing I've ever seen at a wedding.

Emily and Alex aren't cake people BUT THEY ARE CHURRO PEOPLE.

Look at these two! I couldn't adore them more. Congrats, Alex and Emily. I wish you many beautiful years ahead of you!

Florals were all done by the talented Michelle from Something's Blooming and this entire of event was expertly planned and executed by one of LA's very best wedding planners, Events by Emily Kay

Lisa's "Something Borrowed" were a beautiful pair of pearl earrings from her Mother-In-Law, Mary Lou.

The open back on Lisa's dress was "Chef's Kiss".

Matt's suit had an amazing touch- his and Lisa's initials embroidered along with their wedding date!

Lisa's hair and makeup were done by the ever talented, Betsy DiFrancesca.

Lisa and Matt not only did a first look but they also recited their own personal and private vows to one another prior to the ceremony. I'm such a huge fan of the decision to keep your vows intimate.

Matt's sister, Maureen officiated a touching ceremony peppered with loving humor.

Welcome to your cocktail hour!

There's nothing quite like getting your arms around a long lost friend.

There are many things to love about The Lodge but the food that Chef Cordelia and her team serves up is at the top of the list!

The MARGA-REID-A and MATT-HATTAN were the signature cocktails of the evening.

The sister of the bride gave a heartfelt speech and the best man delivered the laughs!

The (very delicious) cake threatened to pull a Tower of Pisa but the newlyweds still pulled off a spectacular cutting.

At one point I heard a guest say "I knew Lisa was a sexy dancer but I had no idea Matt was such a sexy dancer too!" And its true. these two can cut a rug like no other!

The moment Lisa realized she never wanted the night to end.

They truly are the perfect match. Thank you forever to this amazing couple for trusting me with their wedding memories. 

Leora and Mary Kate are beautifully paired- their individual energies both matching and balancing each other all at once. Quick to laugh, easy going and very much in love... they go together like peanut butter and jelly, baby. They also did one of my very favorite things that a couple can do on their wedding day. They got ready together!

Mary Kate's earrings were both her something borrowed and something blue.

Mary Kate and Leora's mothers were both there for the entire getting ready process. They looked on with such adoration and awe of their daughters. The love and support that the bride's beautiful families showed them was absolutely palpable.

There was some bad weather earlier in the morning which we knew was going to force the ceremony indoors but the skies showed off for us during their bridal portraits.

They exchanged handwritten vows that had their guests laughing through tears- truly the best wedding emotion.

Well done, you wonderful women.

T I M E   T O   P A R T Y

One of their very first dates involved dancing and their wedding wasn't going to be any different. These two didn't just cut rugs. They shredded them.

One of my fave shots of the reception. Mary Kate plopped herself in Leora's lap and Leora just started glowing. That's some true love right there.

Time to hora! Leora has the face of a woman who knows she's about to get traumatized.

A little TLC is necessary after a near-death experience!

This day was so, so spectacular and I'm so damn glad I got to be a part of it.

Congratulations, Leora and Mary Kate. 

I am so thrilled to share this special sneak peek of Sarah and Paul's magical day.

Wedding Rings are from Berlinger Jewelry and MCG Jewelry

Sarah's dress is from Martina Liana Bridal and Paul's suit is from The Grotto Menswear

Paul gifted his groomsmen engraved pocket watches that matched his own.

Best Man is the best at helping tie that tie.

While Paul got ready, Sarah spent an emotional few moments with some of the most important women in her life. They all held hands while speaking words of encouragement, lifting Sarah up as she prepared to enter into a lifetime partnership.

A true friend will catch your tears before they ruin the beautiful makeup done by Afterglow Pro Studio

I just love it when couple's finally get to be together on their wedding day. As soon as Sarah and Paul were reunited, everything made sense... everything fell into place. They are exquisitely matched and very, very much in love.

Videographer Anna Lam and I marveled at the light we had for these pictures. Looking back, I'm still so struck by it's perfect glow.

This cutie was absolutely besotted with the bouquets done by Budding Optimist and of course, wanted his picture taken with them!

The ceremony was officiated by Sarah's middle school principal, Wanda Holland-Greene.

After sealing their marriage with a kiss, Sarah and Paul blended Jewish and Black customs by jumping the broom and then simultaneously breaking glass together. SO. MUCH. JOY.

The reception space was so perfectly elegant.

A marriage blessed by a magic moon.

I can't get over how beautiful this venue is.

These two brought such AMAZING energy into their reception and their guests were so happy to respond in kind.

Their first dance was to Kissing You by Des'ree... one of the most beautiful love songs of all time.

Shout out to DJ Clife keeping both the evening and the music flowing!!!

The end of the evening brought one of my favorite sparkler exits to date! There is something so thrilling about being seeing a couple surrounded by their loved ones as little, handheld fireworks are raised in support of their love. 

What a beautiful, magical day. I'm so incredibly grateful that I got to be a part of it. Thank you, Sarah and Paul. May you treasure these pictures for the rest of your lives!

Last weekend I headed up to the beautiful Calamigos Ranch in Malibu to photograph Caroline and Patrick's wedding. It was about 10 million degrees out but Caroline was so chic and effortlessly cool and Patrick was so wonderfully good natured- they absolutely lived up to their hashtag... #TheMcChillens 

These two roll with the punches and throughout the day they were focused on the only thing that mattered, each other.

All of the details were classically modern. Perfectly timeless. 

I love finding sneaky ways to frame my brides as they get ready. 

I've been dying to do a first look on a staircase. When I found this one in their hotel I just knew it would be perfect.

Caroline was calm and collected but seeing your future husband for the first time on your wedding day is like nothing else. My heart went pitter pat as some of her emotions bubbled over.

Chic AF.

Calamigos was giving us allllll the dappled light. 

This shot of Patrick watching his bride get her photo taken is so swoon worthy. That's some serious love right there.

Caroline told her bridesmaids and officiant choose whatever dress they wanted to wear. They all looked absolutely incredible but that wasn't important to her, she just wanted them by her side.

Patrick's friends absolutely cheered for him when he walked down the aisle. It was an unexpectedly beautiful and joyous moment.

Happy tears were a bit of a theme. 

They do!

I absolutely adored the vases and colors of this wedding. Again, the perfect blend of classic and modern.

Find your person and hold on tight.

I'm so glad you found each other, McChillens. May your marriage be blessed with many years of love, easy laughter and giving zero f's about the small stuff.

Planning by Events by Emily Kay

Venue Calamigos Ranch

Hair and Makeup by Emily Lynn and Company

Florals by Leta Verbena

Music by On the Beat

Morgan's dress was breathtaking. Champagne with stunning lace detail and crystal embellishments.

Morgan wanted just one, perfect ring rather than two separate engagement and wedding bands. Gabe proposed with a gorgeous diamond and together they designed this beautiful piece.

On her way to bridal portraits.

I loved this first look. I was able to shoot this one from a distance so they had a few genuinely quiet moments together before the wedding.

Gabe surprised Morgan with a pre-ceremony letter. Morgan then played the classic game of "Trying Not To Cry And Mess Up Your Wedding Makeup".

Morgan's closest friends showed their support by dressing in her wedding color palette.

The wedding was officiated by Gabe's very best friend, Raja.

His vows made her cry, her vows mad him laugh. The ultimate combination.

The light following the ceremony was impossibly perfect and their post-ceremony glow matched it.

The reception began with a heartfelt thank you from the bride and groom followed by some hilarious and touching speeches from their families.

Covid kept some important members of Gabe's family from attending but WE STILL GOT THEM A PICTURE TOGETHER!

They opted to do a combined mother/son, father/daughter dance which I LOVED. It felt like such a joyous way to join the families.

Look at this absolutely gorgeous venue! 

The Horah! Thrilling and terrifying newlyweds for nearly 100 years! Also, check out Morgan's festive party dress!

DANCE MACHINES.

Morgan and Gabe are not cake people so they opted for ice cream! These late night cones were a hit with their guests. 

J U S T  M A R R I E D.

Special thanks to the Dream Team of Vendors:

Planning- Events by Emily Kay

Photography- Jenn Spain Photography

Venue- Skirball Cultural Center

Rentals- Provenance Rentals

Hair and Makeup- La Rouge Artistry

Florals- Leta Verbena

DJ- DJ Mac

Lighting- Coastal Event Lighting and Production

I'm a sucker for details and these one's just took my breath away.

Ever the clown, ever the gentleman.

Orinna's dress was PERFECT. Elegant and timeless with it's gorgeous train but lightweight and modern in it's cut.

I was thrilled to find out that Orinna is a fellow fragrance enthusiast. I think there is something so romantic about choosing a signature scent for your wedding. Anytime you smell that scent going forward you'll be instantly taken back to one of the most incredible days of your life. Orinna's niche fragrance was so lovely and layered so wonderfully with the gorgeous gardens surrounding the venue.

True love in the jasmine.

Rebel and Rogue  knocked it out of the park with this gorgeous bouquet.

La Rouge Artistry coming in with Orinna's gorgeous wedding-day look.

Everyone looks so effortlessly cool that you'd never guess that one of the groomsman split his pants right before I shot this. Which one? My lips are sealed... unlike his pants.

Handwritten vows are my favorite. The way that magical light followed Orinna around all day is my other favorite.

First kiss beneath the tall trees.

More kissing. These two REALLY like each other.

Huge shoutout to Events by Emily Kay for all the planning and executing such a gorgeous reception space.

The speeches delivered by Jacob and Max, the co-Best Men were some of the best I've heard  I've heard and Katelyn's Maid-of-Honor speech was so touching.

Besties. <3

Three different flavors on this bad boy. That is the correct number of flavors. Thank you, Skiffs Cakes

Second Song brought the music and those  sweet up-lights.

The Lodge at Malibou Lake is such a wonderful, historic venue. I am so happy to return here once again.

Huge thanks to Orinna and Thomas for trusting me with their most special and spectacular day. I wish you a lifetime of joy and partnership.

P.S. It was one of the Best Men.

This time it was for the long awaited (and postponed) wedding of Mat and Rose. This couple is so wonderfully unique and the Theatricum was the absolute perfect venue for them.

I arrived a few minutes before Rose did. When she walked up, she and Mat laid eyes on one another and immediately flew into each other's arms.

"Oh yes", I thought. "It's gonna be a great day".

Rose and Mat's style is *chef's kiss*. Both their wedding shoes came from my all time favorite brand and the rose gold rings and rose themed jewelry were both stunning and on the nose. Rose's rings came from the ever-spectacular Alexis Russell.

Mat wore a vintage Gucci watch that belonged to his late father.

Rose's beautiful mama helped her put on her dress and choose her "something borrowed" from her grandmother's jewelry collection.

The beautiful belt did not make it all the way to the ceremony but hot damn did it look good while it lasted.

T'was quite cold in the canyon so Rose's red wrap was the perfect companion to her dress.

I'm a big fan of couples who get ready together. My husband and I did it too! I just love the thought of being an unseparated team throughout the whole day. Side by side, start to finish. 

Taking a moment to take in the venue.

One of things that stuck me the most about Rose and Mat is just how at ease they are with each other. To them, being partners is as natural as taking a breath.

Guests were starting to arrive so Rose changed into her reception dress. True to this couple's unique spirits, they decided to to dinner speeches before the ceremony.

Rose's sister in law did her makeup while little Hudson serenaded them both. I heard this sweet girl say "I love you, Rosie"  no less than 100 times that day.
 

Rose spent the last couple of years collecting bottles and drying flowers to decorate the reception space with. 

The center pieces were made of books and tchotchkes form the couple's apartment.

Mat is a huge puddle lover and the guests were given a fun one to fill out. This puzzle will become important later in the evening.

After dinner and speeches, guests began gathering in the theatre where some friends of the couple provided some very entertaining entertainment.

And then... it was showtime.

Rarely, if ever do i say these words but... the rabbi killed it. Rabbi Arthur Rosenberg was warm, engaging and SO FUNNY. He was the perfect officiant!

Rose and Mat joyfully partook in many of the traditional parts of Jewish wedding ceremony. They also wrote their own vows which were heartfelt and beautiful.

Their chuppah was held up by some of the most important people in their lives. Others were onstage nearby in a show of beautiful support.

Married!!!!

Rose and Mat told me that there was going to be a "cake show" which turned out to be short for an "Interactive Audience Musical Performance Art That Ends In Cake".

It was glorious.

After cake, it was time to dance!

The surf rock Hava Nagila was perfect for this raucous hora!

This wedding was truly one for the books.

Thank you Mat and Rose for such a spectacular, theatrical and love filled evening.

The perfect time to write your vows is the exact moment you do it.

A loving squeeze between Lizzy and her dear family friend (and florist extraordinaire) Elizabeth.

Lizzy and her mom Mary, shared such tender moments as Lizzy put on the dress that both Mary and Mary's mother wore when they got married. 

Stepping into wedding shoes requires support.

Lizzy was escorted down the aisle by her parents. Cameron's tear ducts didn't stand a chance.

I just love when couples request this shot!

Lizzy is giving me major Lucille Ball vibes.

I love a good venue glamour shot.

These two had been saving this bottle for years. The cork may or may not but absolutely, definitely ended up inside the bottle.

Heaping plates of the best tacos ever from Kogi Truck. See, I TOLD you they got a food truck!!!

Congratulations, Cameron and Lizzy! I'm so glad that you finally got to say "I Do"!

You may want to consider rescheduling your anniversary every few years in honor of all that it took to get you here.

xoxo

"Oh wow!" I replied. "I love that. That sounds amazing."

But in my head I was saying, "Holy shit. Please choose me, please choose me, PLEASE CHOOSE ME!!!"

And they did.

And I'm SO glad. Their wedding was spectacular. One of those weddings that I can just sink my creative teeth into and take a big, juicy bite.

Come take a peek.

These babes served up some pretty fan-fricken-tastic wedding lewks. Pink velvet suit? Yes please. Two-piece wedding dress? Yassssss please.

Their venue was the ever-fantastic Fig House in Highland Park. This hidden gem was the perfect backdrop for their colorful union.

Hair and Makeup by Elwynn and Cass

Chuppa, boutonierre and bouquet by Lindsey White Studio

The ceremony, held on their seventh anniversary on the night of a full moon, consisted of handwritten vows and Jewish and Pagan customs all beautifully woven together.

Ceremony officiated by Reverend Mercy Ceremonies

Sacred Hand Fasting and tying of the night.

Sealed with a kiss.

Breaking of the glass.

This is one of my favorite shots to capture at a wedding. Freshly married, with all the love and support from their family and friends just beaming back at them.

The reception was an absolute feast for the eyes. MacKenna had a VISION and it was spectacularly executed by Romance and Revelry

Can you picture a reception that is colorful, sensual, witchy and laced with disco? 

Say no more. I'll show you.

These two promised a dance party and they delivered a dance party.

I'm pretty sure that an unwritten wedding rule is that your nephew/flower boy will have the most fun of anyone!

Guest's cut their sweet-teeth on some delicious Sidecar Doughnuts and the brides ceremoniously cut a doughnut to feed each other.

This stunning witchy wedding was one hell of a way to close the curtain on 2021. Thanks for choosing me, Mac and Tash. Truly.

Yes please.

The winding drive up to Big Bear was breathtaking. I've always been a big fan of long drives. I love having the windows down and my music loud, a warm coffee to keep me company.  It was a perfect October day and the way the light was hitting the mountains... I just knew I was in for a magical afternoon.

Current events kept the guest list small. Everything was DIY, but that is to be expected when the bride is as talented of an artist as Lindsay is. 

As predicted, Lindsay's dress was stunning and it beautifully captured her esthetic. 

The ceremony took place on the deck of the beautiful A-Frame cabin they rented. It was so intimate and the light filtering through the golden leaves gave everything a warm, amber glow.

Better find that ring, Best Man!

Cody had a number of "something borrowed" including this gorgeous, delicate ring.

Cody and Jimmy love saying that they'll love each other "even when they're ghosts". Cody got Jimmy this beautiful pocket watch as a nod to their favorite saying.

Cody and Jimmy's adorable dogs were their flower girls and were dressed to the nines! Audrey and Leela were quite the showstoppers.

The lovebirds chose to a "First Look" and the look on Jimmy's face while he waits for his bride is priceless.

Time to make this family official!

McGrath Ranch and Gardens was the perfect venue. The light and the trees created an almost gothic southern look to the property.

I was more than obsessed with the moody light casting over Cody in the bridal suite. "Even When We're Ghosts" came to mind as I captured this image.

Not only did Cody's parents escort her down the aisle, they officiated over the wedding! I loved how involved their families were in the ceremony.

There was so much laughter and humor, not only were Jimmy and Cody connected but it was clear how connected they were to their families. It was really beautiful to see.

The other thing that took my breath away was the way the early evening light danced around Cody through out the entire ceremony. She truly looked magical as vows were exchanged.

They did it!

After the ceremony we hurried back to the beach so we could play in the perfect sunset. The rich hues and sparkling water was the perfect backdrop for their first photoshoot as husband and wife!

Even when they're ghosts.... 

Meet the team!

Planning: Events By Emily Kay

Video: Joshua Sallach Creative

Venue: McGrath Ranch and Garden

HMUA: La Rouge Artistry

DJ: Red Shoe LA

Bouquet: Lori's Flowers

Rentals: Amigo Party Rentals

Cake: Sugar Labe Bake Shop

Vasquez Rocks.

Katie and Jeremy opted for a sunrise ceremony and I'm so glad they did. The ever changing, gorgeous sky and these ancient rock formations were the perfect backdrop for this galactic affair.

This ceremony had no exchange of rings as Katie and Jeremy had already been wearing theirs for awhile. Instead, they did a "flashing of the rings"!

After the brief, heartfelt ceremony... we were off for some fun! In the pandemic, wedding photos look a lot different than they used to. But even with masks on, photos can still be absolutely epic.

Can you spot the Jedis that made a guest appearance?

After we had gotten some gorgeous shots of them in their wedding jumpsuits, they changed into some costumes! We couldn't pass up the chance to recreate some famous Star Trek moments.

Thanks for taking me to outer space with you, Katie and Jeremy. May your love burn as bright as the stars.

No gatherings of larger than five people and they must maintain a distance of six feet. No problem. Come take a peek at how these beautiful humans worked with what they were given!

Meghann and Mark were fortunate enough to have some friends who own a parcel of land in Malibu with some sweeping views. Their friends cleared the brush away from the ceremony space the week before and then remained in the safety of the house from an observable distance. I came armed with my long distance lenses and a facemark. Their two witnesses kept a healthy distance and their officiant and family joined them from the safest possible way- via Zoom!

Was it what they planned on? Of course not! Was it still magical? HELL YES.

Meghann's waterworks started immediately. There is something so incredible and affirming about exchanging vows with the one you love the most. Her gratitude and reverence in the moment was so touching.

Excuse me, you two. That is not socially distanced!!!

Sweet Meghann literally danced for joy after they said I Do. I've never seen a happier bride.

After they were wed, we headed back to their apartment for a reception for two- plus all their friends and family joining in on Zoom!

Meghann and Mark's apartment complex is like something out of a sitcom. Everyone knows and loves each other and their darling neighbors came out to offer a cheers from a distance!

These two went ALL OUT on the decorations in their apartment. I was so damn impressed at how they put out for themselves. 

While they're loved ones tuned in on Zoom, the newlyweds cut the cake and popped off a couple of confetti cannon!

Ultimately, a wedding and a marriage are two very different things. The world threw every obstacle in the book at these two and they handled it in stride and with the most amazing sense of humor. And if they can find love and joy in the time of Covid, they can do anything together.

And then.... well, you know.

As a small business owner, this is just about the worst case scenario. Overnight my income dried up. And I know I'm not alone. Everyone's lives have been turned upside-down. And when you're creative outlet and your source of income are one and the same? This shit is DEPRESSING.

But there were only so many days of sadness and boredom that I could handle. I moped and cried and let the existential dread wash over me and then... I got creative. I knew I didn't want all this time to pass without shooting or adding to my portfolio but I needed to find a way to do it without actually coming into contact with anyone. 

Thank god for technology!

FaceTime sessions have been the answer to all my prayers. I'm creating again, interacting with amazing people and bringing a welcome distraction to my client's lives during this difficult time. These sessions are incredibly freeing and perfectly imperfect. Unlike my typical sessions, the images I produce aren't high-res. They have a vintage, almost film-like appearance to them. My clients don't have fret about hair and makeup because those details aren't as apparent in the final images. They have texture, grit and fully embrace this abnormal world we're all just surviving in.

FaceTime Photo

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I know they've already been rolling around in your head so let's just get right into it, shall we?

THE FAQ's

How does this work, exactly?

I call you on FaceTime from my computer and you answer on your phone. First you'll give a little tour of your space so I can determine the best location for lighting and then we'll get down to business! I have my clients bring a clean coffee cup to serve as a tripod and I tell you where and how to set up the phone. Then I direct you on where to go and what to do. Using FaceTime's live capture I can actually take photos using your phone that are then saved to my computer. These sessions are short, they take only about 20 minutes.

I'm an Android user... can I still do this?

Yes! For Android users I use Zoom to do your session. However as we are using an application that isn't secure, you need to be comfortable with an outside 3rd party potentially having access to your photos.

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What kind of sessions are you offering over FaceTime!

All kinds! I think this method is particularly awesome for boudoir and portraits but it works amazing for family or engagement sessions too!

How much is a session?

$30 for 5 images.

WTF. Why so cheap?

These sessions are NOT meant to take the place of a regular "real" photography session. As I stated before, while these images are fun and beautiful, their low-resolution does not make them ideal for printing. They are meant to be viewed on a phone. If you were to decide to print them, I wouldn't print them much larger than wallet sized. Maybe a 2x3.

ALSO

We're all in quarantine, dammit! Many of us have lost our jobs or have seen a drastic cut in hours and pay. Businesses have been shuttered and we're all trying to keep our heads above water. I priced these sessions based on the effort it takes me to create them and understanding that pretty much every human in our country is in need of something fun and affordable to distract them from *gestures wildly* all of this. One of my beautiful clients is in the third trimester of her pregnancy and had all but given up on the hope of having a maternity session done until she found out about my sessions. When the world goes back to normal, so will my sessions and my pricing. Until then, let's loosen up and have a little fun.

FaceTime Photo

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My iPhone is old and kinda sucks.... can I still do one of these sessions?

Absolutely! The older the iPhone, the more film-like and "grainy" your images will seem but personally, I like that.

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Oh yeah, I can also make some rad GIF's from these sessions!

Will these sessions be a permanent offering?

Nope. This is a temporary offering. As soon as the Stay At Home orders are lifted and we can resume normal business, these sessions will be going bye bye.

How do I book one?

Just get in touch. I have tons of availability and I'm pumped to do these. Plus, it's really nice to see a human face that isn't mine or my husbands. Though I do love his face.

So there you have it! FaceTime Sessions are the way to capture family memories and moments without having to leave the house! They're perfect!

Of course, if you have any follow up questions or want to book a session... you know how to find me.

xoxo

-j

Ashley and Jon met where everyone meets these days... in a cozy, romantic corner of the internet. Jon is a musician and he artfully created the perfect playlist of music to guide the guests thru the emotions and moments of the day. Ashley is a talented actress who envisioned and created the stunning design of the wedding.

Ashley and Jon are far from traditional, so I made sure to have a little fun when shooting their rings.

Their ceremony was simple, loving and fully supported by their chosen family of friends. Their officiants, Melissa and Aaron, were the also the hosts of the wedding and married to each other. Ashley's bridesmaids were the most special women from different, important chapters of her life. Jon's groomsman are an extremely tight knit group of friends. So close that when I was gathering Jon and Ashley's families for formal portraits, the groomsmen inserted themselves into the large group family photo. I looked at my list of names and asked them if they were all in Jon's family. "Yes, we're family" they answered with complete sincerity. Moments later they looked around and realized why I was confused. "Ohhhhh, you meant like, 'blood related'. No, that's not us."

It was beyond charming.

"Meow meow meow, meow meow meow. MEOW."

Jon and Ashley knew what that meant. It's why they're perfect for each other.

Yasssss girl, that's your mans. Put a ring on it!

They do!

I couldn't get over Ashley's glamorous Old-Hollywood look. Once again, her talented and loving friend, Melissa, stepped in to assist. She executed Ashley's flawless look. 

Once the reception was underway the ceremony site transformed into its true and rightful purpose: CAKE STATION.

Like, the PERFECT cake station.

Congratulations, Ashley and Jon. I'm so grateful that you trusted me and my team to capture this gorgeous day that you created to celebrate your love. I wish you a lifetime of meows and happiness.

Creating GIFs for my clients is one of my FAVORITE things to do. I just love the witchy vibe of this one.

The bride-to-be, Margot, is beautiful inside and out. It's easy to see why her ladies love her so.

Thanks, Joshua Tree. You were perfect. As always.

It's true! In the United States copyright law states that the person who clicks the shutter owns the photo! Not the person who owns the camera and not the person who is in the photo.... just the photographer. Here is a beautiful rhyme I just made up to help you remember this law:

Whoever clicky, owns the picky.

Oh my god, I'm a friggen poet.

(Here is me. Owner of every picture I take. But I don't own this one! It belongs to this babe.)

BUT WAIT... I paid for them, shouldn't they be mine?

When you pay your photographer for your photos what you're actually doing is paying for the rights to use them personally. Personal use could mean any or all of the following: printing your photos, displaying them in your home, gifting copies of them to friends and family or sharing them on social media. I grant my clients all of those personal use rights very specifically in my contract! It's of a huge benefit to my business to have my work shared and I'm happy when my clients do so. But because I own the photos, my clients are not allowed to sell the images, enter them in contests, use them for advertising or give them to other companies to use in advertising without my permission. This is also detailed very specifically in my contracts.

(Is it starting to click?)

Are there exceptions to this rule? What if I WANT to own the copyright to my photos? How do I do that?

There are certainly exceptions to this rule! I have sold the copyright of photos to clients who wanted to own them exclusively. However, owning the copyright involves a different kind of contract and a much higher price tag. 

Ok, so what if I want to keep my images private?

That's ok too! This is a common request from my boudoir clients who don't want nakey pictures of them on the internet but there are allll sorts of reasons why a person may want to keep their images private. Perhaps they have a foster child and are legally not allowed to share pictures of that child. Maybe they have escaped an abusive partner and don't wish to be found. Whatever the reason, I'm not an a-hole and I respect my client's need for privacy. It takes zero effort for me to not be an a-hole. Don't be an a-hole. 

So in my contract with my wedding venue it states that my photographer is required to sign a contract with them granting them full rights to my photos so.....

Ok, HOLD UP. This is something that I have seen pop up as an issue more and more and I want to address it head-on. There have been a number of venues across the country that aren't allowing photographers to shoot on their property unless they grant them exclusive rights to the images. Now, private properties ARE allowed to determine who and who isn't allowed to take photographs at their venue. BUT, these venues are essentially committing Legal Blackmail and frankly, it sucks. As a photographer I have always allowed the venues I shoot at to share my imagery with proper photo credit. I've even let venues use my pictures in their own advertisements as long as I am credited in the ad! However, what some venues are trying to do is bypass the need for credit or payment by refusing entry to the property unless a photographer signs a contract granting exclusive rights to the images. Some venues have even gone as far as having the intended couple sign a contract that grants the venue the rights to the photos but legally the couple can't do that because why?

BECAUSE THE PHOTOGRAPHER OWNS THE IMAGES.

So, what if this is a venue that you are ABSOLUTELY in love with and you just have to get married there or you will just DIE??

Then go ahead! Get married there! Just be aware that there are many, many photographers (myself included) who will walk away from a wedding before signing away the rights to our work.

(Here I am, walking away. Taking NONE of that bullshit)

The point I'm trying to make is... talk to your photographer about what your expectations are for your photos. If you want to own the copyright, ask your photographer what that will cost! Also, make sure you READ your contracts. Not just with your photographer but with your venue and other vendors as well. Communication is crucial and will save you tons of hassle.

But most importantly, please remember what a brilliant poet I am.

Whoever clicky, owns the picky.

xoxo

-j

P.S. If you have a pet baby elephant I'm gonna need you to call me immediately.

Now, come take a peek at some of my favorite captures of 2019!!!

Best Kiss

Before they got married I told Caleb I wanted to get a shot of them kissing in the aisle and when I gave my cue he swept up his new bride so perfectly. The slight dip, her hand behind his neck and the gorgeous colors of their florals... muah!

Best Expression

This cutie was so amped up during her at-home family session that she couldn't stop jumping and spinning. In an attempt to get her to look at the camera I asked her if she should see the butterfly in my lens. "Wait, I need to get my magmafime glass" she told me. She REALLY wanted to see that butterfly! Her squished nose, slight fog on the glass and those magnified baby blues just tickle me.

Best Newborn

I mean.... COME ON. Puppy breath, chubby belly and endless amounts of wrinkles? Stella was pure gold.

Best Artistic Leap

Every once and awhile I shoot an image that becomes an iconic one for me. This is the moment I realized that my boudoir studio had something incredibly special to offer to women. 

Best Skies

Getting out of LA and finding myself under Albuquerque's incredible sky scape absolutely nourished my artistic soul this past summer. Add in my drop-dead gorgeous bestie and you've got this piece of magic.

Best WTF

This was probably the happiest I've ever been on a photoshoot. I learned so much about the care and life of honeybees and I got to capture this amazing moment that a couple of bees just chilled on the finger of their beloved beekeeper.

Best Candid

My friend's grandmother taking her very first jello shot. Need I say more?

Best Poop

This tiny cutie abruptly ended her 3 month shoot by pooping directly into her fathers pocket! Keys and wallet be damned- when ya gotta go, ya gotta go! Thanks for the laugh, Nora!

Best Laughter Thru Tears

I admit I often get a little teary while I'm shooting weddings but this moment took the cake! Kris' vows took several starts as he kept finding himself overcome with tears and then doubling over in laughter at himself. His emotions were palpable and every guest (including myself) was crying and laughing as we shared in his struggle. With the encouragement of his amazing wife and officiant he made his way thru some of the most heartfelt vows I have ever heard. It was truly beautiful to witness.

Best Theme

We pulled out allllll the vintage styling for this Intimate Empowerment session and I am OBSESSED with the way it came out. Fully clothed with a sexy twist just might be my new favorite thing.

Best Mother/Daughter Moment

The look on sweet Kim's face as she barely keeps it together while her daughter's help their youngest sister get ready for her wedding just melts me. I shot 2 out of 3 of her daughter's weddings and this stunning family is such a joy to shoot!

Best Selfie

The photo that catapulted my little family into International Fame. We were picked up in dozens of publications around the world and we even made the front page of Reddit. I am enormously proud of our little zucchini baby. It was freaking delicious. 

Honestly, narrowing down these moments was incredibly hard work. Even as I type this I'm remembering 20 other photos that are also AMAZING. But that's always how it is, huh?

Happy New Year, babes. I love you all so damn much.

-j

This engagement ring just took my breath away! It's a sapphire that looks turquoise or even green in the right light. Tess is a huge lover of plants so it's pretty much the perfect stone for her.

Tess and Eugene met on Tinder! They chatted only briefly before meeting for a date and they've been by each other's side ever since. As luck would have it, they're both from the midwest which makes planning their Milwaukee wedding just a teensy bit easier!

I told Eugene and Tess to sit at the bar and order drinks (capturing my clients as naturally and comfortably as I can is ALWAYS my goal) and these sweet and generous should ordered me one too. Cheers!

I'm so happy that these two found each other, fell in love and hired me! This delicious session was definitely one for the books!

Huzzah!

 And it sure doesn't hurt that this family is CUTE. AS. HECK.

These two are like watching a couple of puppies! Constantly playing and finding any excuse to tumble into each other.

Adorable.

Well guess what, kids? I'm here to drop truth bombs and spill some serious tea.

This so called Wedding Tax is a myth. Yup, it's total bullshit. Let me explain. 

Wedding photography is expensive. But not why you might think. I don't hear the word "wedding" and randomly throw a few extra dollar signs onto my quote... there is a lot more to it than that.

It's easy to assume that wedding photographers are so expensive because of their gear. And yes, that is part of it. If I've shot your wedding you've absolutely seen me double fisting cameras, sporting rad and expensive looking lenses. Not to mention the sheer number of memory cards, hard drives and batteries I go thru on an annual basis annnnnd the top notch insurance I need to cover it all! It costs a ton of money to be a photographer.

But guess what? That's still only part of it.

My favorite kind of double-fisting. Two Nikons and I'm golden. Photo shot by Alice Tsui.

Being a wedding photographer is an incredibly physically demanding job. A typical wedding will have me on my feet pretty much non-stop for 8-12 hours straight. I'll do 500 squats easily throughout the day and I've been known to belly slide across a dance floor so I can NAIL THAT PERFECT SHOT. The "wedding photography hangover" is a real thing that is well known in the photography community. Weddings are a workout but we also have to go easy on water throughout the day because we don't have a ton of opportunities to use the restroom. The next day our bodies feel like they've been through a hard night of drinking but we haven't had a drop. It's just a glorious combination of dehydration and sore muscles.

But guess what? That's not all. 

During weddings both emotions and expectations are at their absolute highest. You can't redo your wedding, so you're counting on your photographer to capture everything perfectly. As your photographer, I'm also the only person (besides your spouse) who will literally be with you ALL. DAY. LONG. Even those life-saving wedding planners who helped take all that stress off of you during wedding planning won't be with you because they're off running the show! I'm privy to some of the most beautiful moments of your life and some of the most stressful and emotional as well. Once I consoled (did I say console? I meant twerked my ass off) to get a crying bride to laugh. I've hugged and comforted a Mother of the Groom as she wept because she wished her husband had been alive to see their son get married.  Another time, I scrubbed blood out of the back of a bride's dress minutes before she was supposed to walk down the aisle (and it wasn't even her blood). All of this while still taking gorgeous images that capture the beautiful moments that are happening amidst the chaos.

AND THAT'S STILL NOT ALL.

Me absolutely MURDERING that bloodstain out of a wedding dress. Photo by the incredible Casey Brodley.

Of course, when your wedding is over my work has barely begun. I spend hours choosing the perfect collection of images and hand editing each one of them. This is when I get to turn those raw images into art. And honestly, that's one of the most rewarding parts of this job. My art becomes your memories... I freaking LOVE that.

Which brings me to the final reason why the Wedding Tax is a hot load of crap.

It is a literal investment in your memories!!!  You are paying for the preservation and documentation of one of the most important days of your life. These photos won't just be enjoyed by you but by your children and your grandchildren. Those captured memories are one of the only things you'll have left when your beautiful wedding is over. You'll never wear (or possibly fit into) that wedding dress again. Your flowers will fade and die, all that delicious food and drink will be consumed and the songs you danced to will one day be oldies that you hardly ever hear anymore. But your photographs? Your photographs capture and preserve all of those elements that fade. Your photographs are forever.

 When you hire me as a photographer, you're not just hiring someone to stand there and click a button. You're paying for artistry, stamina, compassion and ninja-like reflexes. And even more than that, you're investing in a gift for yourself that will last a lifetime. 

And damnit, I'm worth it.

xoxo

-j

I'm kidding. OBVIOUSLY.

For real, that really is how Lindsay and I met! And as the two least flexible people in our Flexibility and Contortion class, we just HAD to be friends!!!

But Lindsay and Hunter? Well hot damn, those two are on a whole other level. Their passion and chemistry is undeniable. Their bond is so deeply forged in the universe that its intensity is acknowledged by everyone who meets them. And just look at them. LOOK!

How lucky am I to be their wedding photographer?

So freaking lucky.

A couple weeks back we shot their engagement photos up in the hills of Topanga. We got sooooo many amazing images and I want to share a few of my favorites with you all. I am counting down the days to their July wedding!

The other thang I'm obsessed with is collaborating with my fellow wedding vendors. So when my girl Jen over at Burlap and Rose was looking for photographers to document her LA crew putting together some floral displays, I jumped at the chance. Duh.

One of the many things Jen is awesome at is assembling kick-ass teams of women. She is now based in Austin but her LA team is really holding down the west coast. Be sure to check out their amazing work!

Romance and Revelry

Fetch Florals

Luisa Cartagena (Florist and Flautist!)

Alex Sato

Nope, she doesn't look like her Dada at all. Not a bit. Absolutely no resemblance. 

Just us three against the sea.

I mean... come on!

Is she too cute? She might be too cute. Discuss.

Can't wait til next time, little one!

Mission Freaking Accomplished.

One day Stella will be a 50lb fart machine but today, she is only two months old and weighs just 10lbs. 

This cutie came from a litter of all girls. Her sister's names are Lolita, Penny, Elenor and... Potato.

Surrounded by girls for her entire young life, sassy Stella had never met a boy dog until she moved in with her new family and was introduced to the dog next door.

First thing she did was bite him on the Ding Dong.

 Atta girl.

Stella was a SHOW OFF when I got to her house. She tried to eat my necklace, she tried to eat the flowers her mom was arranging, she borked at the pizza we were eating and then peed on the laundry pile.

Ya know, basically preparing for world domination.

Mmmmm... dis flower smell good.

Being a bulldog, Stella sleeps approximately 23.5 hours a day but she was wired and ready to wrestle! She acted like a total goober and gave her mom a run for her money!

But being in front of the camera could tire juuuuust about anypup out and she slowly got sleepier.

I could stare at her lil' smoosh face for hours but a girl has gotta get her beauty sleep! I reluctantly called it a wrap and let the little angel get her rest.

Oh, Stella. Til next time we meet!

Who run the world?

Girls.

xoxo

-j

#bitchesrule

We know it's unconventional BUT WE ARE COMMITTED, WE ARE A FAMILY NOW.

We've understandably have had lots of questions so I'm just going to answer a few of the FAQ's so we don't have to keep repeating ourselves!

Where are you registered?

Target.

Will you be having anymore?

We will definitely be having more children because we can't stop eating them.

Why do a photoshoot?

I love my family and want the world to know it.

Who does your baby look like?

Both of us. It has my eyes and it's father's hairline.

Are... you sure it's yours?

Fine, we used a seed bank. But we love it just the same.

Last night I baked 1/4 of our baby into Blueberry Zucchini Bread and it was freaking delicious. We have plenty to go around but just in case you are too far away to properly enjoy, here is the recipe. Just use any old mutant zucchini (or regular zucchini) that you have laying around.

I know, I know... this all seems a little crazy, but I'm a big believer in not taking life too seriously. And if you're going to take something seriously (like zucchini parenthood) you might as well give it 110% and have fun while you're at it!!! Look, if I am this committed to making a shoot with a vegetable happen just imagine how rad and committed I'm going to be to making your wedding look amazing!!! If I treat a zucchini like a prince just imagine how determined I am to lift you up and make you feel like a goddess when you walk into my boudoir studio. Trust me, my commitment to my zucchini baby is a good thing.

My husband is a natural and I'm so glad I married him.

My advice to you is this: When you're trying to find a photographer to document an important life event (or take hot photos of your cute ass) ask them HOW COMMITTED WOULD THEY BE TO TAKING NEWBORN PICTURES OF AN OVERSIZED VEGETABLES. 

Then call me. The zucchini mom.

xoxo

-j

The skies and endless landscape absolutely lend themselves to imagery and it doesn't hurt that Kate is also the most beautiful thing ever.

While I didn't manage to capture any of it in the photos, there was lightning off in the distance all around us. "These skies a frickin' gorgeous!!!" I exclaimed. "WHAT ABOUT ME?!" She shouted back. I love her.

If you've ever met Kate you know that she can't be serious for more than 20 minutes at a time. "Take a picture of me with my dress on my head!". Again, I love her.

The darkness crept up on us quickly (again- 30 minutes) but we made that sh*t happen!! Of course, I'll be back. I'm gonna capture that lightning if its the last thing I do!!

Today marks one year since my husband and I walked each other down the aisle and exchanged our vows. We had been told over and over that the first year was going to be SO HARD but honestly, it's been the opposite for us. We certainly have had some stressful moments; many (too many) car repairs, personal goals not happening as quickly as we hoped and a couple of months where I had to tend to a brief bout of depression. But comparatively, those stressful moments were the absolute minority in an otherwise amazing first year. The warnings that this year would suck just didn't apply to us. I would say a good 95% of our first year has been spent laughing our asses off and making out. I wouldn't have it any other way.

My best friend Kate introduced us. She told me months before Josh had asked for my number that she thought he was the right guy for me. She was right and she is VERY proud of her rock-solid intuition on this one. I knew there was something special about him on our first date. We spent hours at the restaurant talking and I loved how quick witted and intelligent he was. Kate said she thought we would have great chemistry and would enjoy debating politics together. Check and check! When we said our goodbyes I was hoping for a kiss but the valet was... intrusive and... hovering. Josh pulled me in for a soft kiss on the cheek instead. My heart still flip flopped.

Two days later on a rainy Saturday we had our second date. We decided to introduce our dogs because let's face it, if the dogs didn't get along there was no point in taking things any further! They sniffed butts for 2 seconds and then galloped off together. Our date lasted the whole day. After discovering that we both had the same favorite pizza (pineapple and you can go ahead and shut up if you hate it)  we ordered one and killed two bottles of wine while sitting under a giant umbrella on the back porch. The dogs happily wrestled in the mud while we made out (I already warned you that we do this a lot).

Six months later I confessed my love to Josh for the first time while coming out of anesthesia after having my wisdom teeth removed. He filmed the whole hilariously embarrassing spectacle and STILL wanted to be my boyfriend after. He's so nice to me all the time.

Just shy of our 3rd anniversary of that first date, Josh proposed at a music festival. I knew a proposal was coming but I was caught COMPLETELY off guard. I never expected him to do it in such a public location.I laughed hysterically for a full minute, doubling over with giggles while Josh still on one knee stared with nervous expectation at me. I finally managed to squawk out a "Yes!" and the small crowd that had gathered around us cheered. We hugged and kissed and laughed together for a few minutes before we raced off to see Alanis Morissette. But first- I had to pee! I found an empty port-a-potty and sat down and promptly burst into tears. I was overcome with emotion and the disbelief of what just happened. I sobbed for a minute and then pulled myself together and opened the door. Half a dozen women were standing there, looking at me with great concern. "Are you ok, sweetie?" one of them asked. I smiled and thrust my hand out at them. "I just got ENGAGED!!!" We all shrieked and laughed together and I skipped off to join my fiancé. 

We spent just 7 weeks being engaged before we jumped the broom. There were many, many reasons why we decided to elope instead of having a traditional wedding but the most important one ended up being the one we realized after. By eloping, we were able to spend our entire wedding day focused exclusively on each other. There was no drama, no interruptions, no stupid seating charts. Just our love. It was perfect.

My favorite walk I have ever been on was the one we took together down the aisle. I loved entering our wedding space together, as a team. It was the perfect metaphor for how I want us to face anything that comes our way.

After we exchanged our vows we held each other close and shared a first dance. It didn't matter to us that we didn't have a reception hall full of eyes on us... we wanted to seal our marriage with that moment. It's one of my favorite memories of all time.

Josh has taught me how to slow down, take my time and be intentional. I have taught him how to find the joy in going off the beaten path and to not panic when he sees a bee. We've taught each other how to listen to the other and how to move through the world while taking another human into constant consideration. This partnership is a privilege and we don't take it for granted. 

Traditionally, the first anniversary gift is supposed to be paper. Tonight we are throwing it back to one of our first dates and ordering in some pineapple pizza to eat on paper plates. To us, cheap pizza and good champagne is the perfect way to celebrate one year of being husband and wife. 

There is so much magic in store for our future and I'm so grateful that whatever comes our way, we get to experience it together. Happy Anniversary, Husband. 

I love you and I like you.

Wedding photography and video by Love and Lemons Photography

Every home with a new tiny human is draped with a veil of exhaustion. Sara had an exceptionally long labor and was running on adrenaline, love and sheer force of will. Ben, wide eyed and with a mix of shock and admiration spoke of his wife, "She went and had a baby for three whole days!" It was beautiful, hilarious and heartwarming. 

Of course, Erik is a perfect little squish.... He wears the classic newborn expression that makes babies look both incredibly wise and innocently bewildered all at once. It's a magical expression.

It is important to note that Erik has a very special older brother. His name is Wally and he was the ABSOLUTE STAR of Sara and Ben's wedding. He is the gentlest, most sweetest and well behaved boy and he is head over heels in love with the newest edition of the family!

Sara's parents were also there to welcome their new grandson and provide a helping hand.

Even running on an hour of sleep, Sara is a total natural. 

And Wally? Well, he's never very far away. Like...ever. <3

This sweet family has a lot of sleepless nights ahead of them but also so much joy. Sara and Ben know how to love and they are so supportive and respectful to one another. Erik is so lucky to have them and sweet Wally looking after him.

Seventeen year-old Jenn's drawings and observations. 

I recently discovered that I share a passion for science and the natural world with one of my beautiful brides, Jackie! Remember Jackie? From the most amazing Big Sur Wedding? Holy crap, that was a great day. Anyways, Jackie also has a huge interest in science and for some time has been wanting to find a hobby that is both altruistic and could be done with a sometimes chaotic schedule. Jackie is an actress and her audition and rehearsal schedule keeps her busy. It is equally important for actors and artists (ahem, photographers) to find hobbies. It is super easy for us to get lost in our craft and forget to tend to the parts of our brains that aren't creating art. Given our planet's dwindling bee populations, Jackie decided that the best hobby for her that would also give back to our world was beekeeping! She enrolled herself in apiary classes and a few months ago, acquired her hive. I was ECSTATIC when I found out she was doing this and even happier when she invited me out to her and Colin's Topanga oasis to document her bees. I photograph honey bees in my yard as much as I can... I love offering exhausted bees a little sugar water so they have enough energy to find their way home.

A honeybee using its proboscis to drink sugar water.

As a boudoir photographer, I'm often found taking pictures of boobies but I jumped at the chance to take some pictures of a whole hive of bee-bees!!!

See what I did there??

 After suiting up, the first thing Jackie did was smoke her bees with a bee smoker. The smoke encourages the bees to move further down into the hive so it's easier for Jackie to inspect them. The smoke also masks the bee's pheromones so if some of the bees start to get a little agitated the rest of the hive doesn't notice!

Jackie has a Langstroth Hive which is made out of layers of boxes and frames that make it easier to collect honey when the bees start producing. An active hive can have anywhere from ten to sixty thousand bees! Hives are truly like miniature cities... every bee has a job and a purpose that supports the health of the hive.

 A hive needs access to clean water (Jackie keeps a flowing fountain in her yard), proper ventilation, access to morning sun but protection from harsh afternoon sun, and security from animals looking to steal their honey! Jackie keeps a heavy brick on the lid of her hive to prevent greedy raccoons and she greases the legs of her hive to prevent ants from invading underneath.

I'm pretty obsessed with this image. I love the way the light bounces off all the fuzzy little bees.

Jackie carefully removes each frame to inspect them. Each active hive consists of one queen, hundreds of drones (the only males in a hive), thousands of older foragers, thousands of younger hive bees, thousands of capped brood, thousands of uncapped larva and thousands of eggs! She inspects them to make sure she can find evidence of all the inhabitants so that she knows her hive is healthy.

You mayyyyyyy be wondering why Jackie isn't wearing gloves and there is actually a really good reason for that! When she is gloveless it's easier for her to feel where the bees are when she is removing the frames. She tries very hard not to squish or kill any of the bees and when she's wearing gloves it can desensitize her to their movements. Honeybees are fairly chill by nature and remaining calm and collected around them helps them stay the same.

One of my favorite moments of the hive inspection was getting to see this bee being born!!!! I've wanted to do birth photography for what feels like forever.... have I finally broken into the market?!?!

Some of the frames were positively dripping with bees and I was so impressed with how confidently and precisely Jackie would flip the frames around to inspect her ladies. 

I mean... come on. She's a brilliant, beautiful bad-ass.

While I was documenting, I did not have on a bee suit but I did have on many layers of protective clothing. Most importantly, I had on large socks that I could tuck my jumper into so the bees wouldn't accidentally get inside my clothing. Even with the protective clothing, it is impossible not to get any bees on you! You just have to remain calm and gently shake them off as you go.

This little cutie landed on my leg and was quite the model until I shooed her away.

Once the hive has been fully inspected Jackie carefully reassembled the hive. While the older foragers are experts at finding their way home most of the hive's inhabitants are a bit directionally challenged. As the smoke encourages the bees to get as low as they can many of them spilled out and got stuck underneath the hive or on the ground. Jackie assisted them in finding their way back by stopping them up by hand!

I had to put my camera down to help so I didn't get any photos of it, but I also got to scoop up the bees! It feels like your holding dozens of slightly sticky vibrators.

This entire experience was absolutely magical for me. My husband has a pretty severe bee allergy, so keeping my own hive is not in my future. I feel a sense of commitment to support my local apiarists and to continue documenting bee behavior in my own backyard. 

Bees are crucial to our ecosystems. Make space for them, respect them. Find joy in observing the creatures that help keep our species alive. M'kay, loves?

xoxo

-j

Breanne and Kris are both fun loving, quick to laugh and deeply in love. They both really love exploring breweries and from the very first date it was clear that they had a fantastic connection. Breanne was so touched when Kris would scope out vegetarian friendly restaurants for date nights and Breanne's sparkling and sincere personality made him fall pretty hard. Beyond beers, they both also keep their friends and loved ones close. When Breanne introduced Kris to her Maid of Honor, Cass knew right away that this man would one day become her best friend's husband. Kris' friends were ecstatic that Kris found a woman as wonderfully genuine and kind as Breanne.

 Sometimes dating apps work and these two are so happy that they both swiped right! 

Their wedding was held at Wedgewood Sterling Hills. It's Spanish-style hall and rolling green was a beautiful backdrop for this sunflower-laden celebration!

Last year Breanne lost her beloved step-father and she carried a portrait of him in her sunflower bouquet. I noticed her reaching for it throughout the day when special moments happened. It touched my heart to know that she had a way to keep him in her presence on such a special occasion. 

While Kris and his Groom's Crew were all business up top, it was a total party downstairs.

Get your mind out of the gutter, I'm talking about SOCKS.

Sheesh.

Their ceremony started at 6 o'clock and it was so soft and beautiful. I love nothing more than an evening ceremony, especially in the summer. The light was perfect and the joy was infectious!

Breanne was escorted down the aisle by her father and her brother Sean, who beautifully represented their late-father.

I adore how lovingly and confidently Kris looks at his bride. 

Humor was blended into the cheerful ceremony, they both made each other (and their guests) laugh. In between the crack-ups, they held a sand ceremony to represent their union. Kris became a little verklempt during his vows but pulled through with Breanne's gentle encouragement. It was such a beautiful metaphor for marriage... taking turns being strong and supporting the other when things are difficult. Kris' beautiful words had Breanne simultaneously weeping and smiling. Laughter through tears is my favorite emotion!

A spontaneous dip-kiss! I swooned for them both. Everyone deserves a kiss like that on their wedding day.

This is the last kissing picture, I swear!

I lied.

Following the ceremony we snuck away for some golden hour portraits and that gorgeous light is perfect for kissing!

The gazebo at the ceremony site was the perfect location for some dramatic night portraits.

During the reception Breanne and her brother shared an emotional dance in honor of their dad. It was so deeply moving and beautiful. In that moment, there was no such thing as dry eyes. We all felt the love they have for him.

After the dancing, and the reveling, and the shenanigans... Breanne and Kris exited their wedding in a parade of bubbles and loved ones. It was the perfect ending to a perfect day but it is just the start of their lives together. 

Congratulations, Breanne and Kris!

These two are opposites and yet, seem perfectly paired. Anthony is boisterous and energetic while Kris Ann is more quiet and reserved. They first met in church, and Kris Ann caught Anthony's eye pretty quickly. "You should ask me for my number" he boldly told her. Not wanting to give him the satisfaction, Kris Ann held off and bided her time. Later on, after flirting at a party they both attended, Kris Ann did a little reconnaissance and found Anthony's phone number in the church directory. The rest is history.

A hotel snafu prevented Kris Ann from getting ready at the hotel like she planned, so she and her bridesmaids got ready in the bathroom of the church instead! Unexpected snags in the plan can feel so stressful, but I truly believe that things going wrong at a wedding is the perfect metaphor for marriage! Sometimes things go right and sometimes they don't but you lean into each other, adjust the plan, and move forward as a team. 

An adorably sassy flower girl made the bathroom quite entertaining!

Anthony got ready at the home of his brother, in the company of men he has known his entire life and his brother's children.

Both Anthony and Kris Ann are huge lovers of the outdoors and they wanted to do their first look surrounded by nature. We chose the Ojai Meadow Preserve, which had beautiful trees and rolling meadows- the perfect combination of the nature they both grew up with.

Anthony got a little choked up with emotion before he even saw his bride... the anticipation was enough to do him in. When he turned around he stared at her with the most tender expression. "You're so beautiful, baby. I love you so much" he kept saying over and over. 

Kris Ann surprised Anthony with the knowledge that she made her own wedding dress! She found the act of stitching her wedding gown to be a grounding and calming thing amidst the chaos of wedding planning.

I can't get over the way he looks at her. SWOOOOOON!

"Riches take wings, comforts vanish, hope withers away, but love stays with us. Love is God." -Lew Wallace

After a few shots with their fabulous wedding party, we had to hit the road so we could get these two to the church on time!

They opted for a simple ceremony and a small guest list. Their families and a few close friends were all they needed to celebrate this joyous union. 

Their reception was relaxed and happy. They opted for a few first dances and then Anthony entertained the guests with the story of a failed bear hunt on the day he proposed. He had a bear in his sights but then hesitated, the bear disappeared and he missed his chance to pull the trigger. He realized he didn't want the same thing to happen with Kris Ann. That night after they got home, he dropped to one knee in the kitchen and proposed. 

Their future is as big as the sky and I wish these two a lifetime of happiness, love and shared dreams. 

But as much fun as it is, nude-gardening is a rare occurrence. Before you know it, it's too damn hot and sticky for such things. Mid-Spring weather is my absolute favorite for working outside. We're in that perfect sweet spot right now... no need to turn on the heat or the AC. We keep our back door open and enjoy the fresh air flowing thru our home.  Everything is so vibrant and alive and blossoming like crazy. I'm spending my early evenings marveling over every inch of it and happily photographing all the beauty. 

My lovely little yard.

I've been taking macro shots of flowers and insects for years. Having a garden pretty much provides me with an endless supply of subjects. Taking these closeup shots requires a ton of patience but it so exciting to capture such tiny details. 

A honey bee drinking water and Osteospermum

Taking macro photographs of the natural world isn't all that different than the closeups I take of wedding rings. They are both incredibly technical and you have to get creative to get the perfect angle!

A pincushion flower blossom and wedding ring set on a protea (one of the best bouquet statement flowers, in my opinion).

While we grow a bunch vegetables too, flowers are so much more fun to photograph. I absolutely adore shooting wedding florals too. Usually my focus when photographing bouquets is capturing the entire arrangement, but I also love zeroing in on a statement flower in a bouquet and giving it a few frames to shine.

I've also had the chance to witness the lives of all the tiny little creatures in my yard. We grow a ton of milkweed for the monarch butterflies and watching their life-cycle is immensely enjoyable.

Milkweed- the sole source of food for the monarch caterpillar.

A monarch egg (about the size of a pencil tip) and a monarch caterpillar covered in raindrops.

A monarch chrysalis and freshly hatched monarch butterfly.

I keep my camera strapped to my body as I water and tend.... It puts me at such a great vantage point for being able to capture these little wonders. And I love that my hobby has given me so much time practice shooting extreme details. Every time I shoot a ring or bouquet I find a moment to be grateful for my garden.

Thank you, garden.

Likewise, flowers are another massive source of inspiration for me. It's no secret that I'm a bit of a CPL (crazy plant lady) and surround my life and home with as much greenery as I can. Southern California was gifted with plentiful rains this winter and the wildflowers are responding with great kindness. Our rolling hills and valleys and even our alleyways are lush with more botanicals than I ever thought possible. 

I've had a couple of shoots over the last couple weeks with women and wildflowers... how could I pass up such a combination, I just love that witchy-shit. Here are a few of my favorite images from those sets.

Head in the clouds and feet in the flowers.

Kate, my bestie and long-time muse.

I suppose Bougainvillea isn't technically a wildflower, but it certainly grows like one! There is a 200+ stretch of it growing under the train tracks in my neighborhood and I'm obsesssssssed with it. Beautiful Brooklyn helped bring these images to life.